Ladyicarus, I have not been a witness to what you are saying but I definitely agree with you on the part that this is wrong. But saying that the staff is "okay" with this type of behavior is not correct. The staff have positively replied to your comments and are willing to do something about it provided the evidence requested. There are going to be some people on the game that are going to be like this, and I myself have been witness to this while playing in other gaming communities ( i.e xbox/playstation ). This should not be new to you. I am not saying you should accept it. I am just saying that you will run into this issues anywhere else you go, what changes is whether the people that staff that gaming community are willing to do something about this situation or not. In this case, I think it is pretty clear that the staff here know what to do regarding this. I for one would definitely react towards this in a law abiding way while playing as APD.
So, with that said. Admins and moderators... as APD, are we just to abide by the handbook and sever rules when witnessing this situation? Can you give us specific instructions as to what to do in this situations? ( aside from obviously trying to take care of the situation by talking down on the perpetrators ). Let us know and I know me and many other APD members are more than willing to help in cases of harassment and/or rape threats on the server. Honestly? it is only a game but I know what you are going through and we are more than willing to help you and any other female gamer playing on our server.