Medics are required to have collision lights on at all times while flying. You telling the medic to turn the off is a violation of the R&R handbook and the medic did not follow your command. You cannot force medics to break rules. Ban was more than justified. Play the game, instead of fucking around with medics
You played for 10 years before using cheats, then for some reason, after 10 years of playing you said "fuck it Imma use cheats". That's some of the most dent head, smooth-brained shit I've ever seen. Ban well deserved.
100% take actions into your own hands. Instant justice. No need for filing a dispute or clipping five minutes of evidence or submitting a report just for the guy to get a 1 day and come back and do it again. Just don't get caught.