I have always personally believed it was easier just to not care about what other people think about you. I understand that for some it's easier said then done. When I was a young kid I was teased I grew older and realized that all that shit doesn't make a fucking difference. Hell, now when people talk shit to me or whatever I embrace it and that seems to trigger them. The moral of the story is, people are gonna say whatever they wanna say. The more you react to someones hate for you in a negative way, the more they will use that against you.