Just a heads up im pretty sure that your bones only show if you get tazed AND RESTRAINED and then lose connection...
that being said...
Granted some people do have have shitty connections and at times it does happen, but, a simple pull of your cord creates the same scenerio, generally how it works is if said person "looses connection" is quite well known or in a solid gang you can allow the chance of reconnecting, random names and random tagged will unfortunatly be assumed in Combat Logging and will have your bones sent.
Only thing you can do is record your loss of connection and use that as a ban appeal ( if it goes as far as getting banned for CL )