Man this post has a lot of shitlib esque whining.
It's fucking Arma, not the San Francisco mental health awareness meeting.
Someone said something mean to you? Oh god forbid. It's not like you have weapons, armed vehicles, explosives and more to stick it to them in game.
Both sides of this are cringe as fuck.
1. Banning someone for simple insults is low tier shit.
2. Threatening to report someone for calling you fat or saying there's only 2 genders or whatever is dumb as fuck.
3. Whining about it on the forums and trying to pretend you aren't coping and seething behind the keyboard is also lame as fuck.
4. White knighting for online larpers is also cringe as fuck.