It has been made clear by the SR. APD that in order for people to progress in rankings, is to prove one's self. Example for PO to CORP. You must show that you are a leader and can handle yourself well with lower rankings, and let alone be active. The SR. APD isn't all that big (in terms of members NOT SAYING THATS A BAD THING). Even with that being said, they do a very good job at knowing who is doing what on the server. They must value a decision as well as the facts they have on a player before giving a promotion. Just like a real life job, you must earn the rank you wish to achieve. Ranks aren't meant to be given out like candy, but rather earned through acquiring experience. And yes, when a SR does join your channel, that is a good way to try to show him/her that you have improved and you are working for your rank. I kindly disagree with the kissing ass part, hopefully you understand the process a little better.
No disrespect to you or anyone that feels the way you feel, AT ALL.