So again sorry that this has happen to you but there is always reason why a prospect got kick out of the gang.
For your friend when a senior pulled that member in for any complaint that he want to give I don't think any of my senior would be toxic they have to evaluate the situation and see both side of the story before moving forward. No hard feeling it just a game and as @Secret Agent and I we just want to chill and hang with the gang memes with cop etc. But again best wishes on your future endeavors.