damn bruh people really need to be told that the mindset of "he's asking for it, why would he drive around a hemmt of frogs by himself without a gun if he didnt want to get robbed" shouldn't apply to interacting with women irl
considering the ratio of dudes:girls on arma its hard to hear about it or see it but that absolutely happens its just a whole different breed where people stop playing/pursue legal action instead of ddossing someone back/making forums posts
Upload it here at the very least so you can get help understanding whatever happened. Unless someone was bugged I very very rarely see someone with lethals fail lethal someone, and if that happens they admit they were wrong and resolve the situation through comp/epi/etc